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Jan 26, 2008

Much Ado About Nada....

Things have been quite hectic back at the ole ranch.  I have people staying with me now, and EJ is out of town.  It's up to me to establish rules and regulations. I hate it.  I hate drama of any kind. I only watch scary or funny movies, or historical dramas.  Or Law and Order, as I have to keep tabs on my boyfriend, Vincent.

With all these people, there is a lot of tattling going on. "He said," or "She said," but frankly, my dears, I don't give a rat's ass!! And I don't. People will talk, you know. And personalities will clash.  I always have my room to retreat to, with my cats, of course.

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I was very sad to hear of the death of Heath Ledger. A wonderful young actor, my favorite film of his would probably be The Four Feathers.  If you have not watched it, I highly recommend it. It would be classified as a historical drama or adventure.

Why must they die so young? And what in the world did Mary Kate have to do with anything? Surely he wasn't dating her? Isn't she the one who looks rather ghoulish? I don't know, can't keep up with the twins as I hated the show that spawned them. HA!

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I gain new respect for my special friend Dave every day.  He is not only a nice person, but highly perceptive about other people.  He has opened my eyes to alternate ways of looking at things. We have, of course, agreed that we will always be special friends of sorts, but that we are not seeking a long term commitment.  (Satan, get thee behind me!!)  Wait, I must cross myself, and say a few prayers of protection as I put the word commitment to paper.

Yes, I am afraid of commitment at this time in my mid-life.  I'm already committed to Vincent, and I should be committed for other reasons. Plus I must constantly fend off attentions from my neighbor, Roger, who is well known for his European persona, i.e., Roman hands and Russian fingers.....(an old phrase, but still useful).

I like living alone. I get the bed all to myself. My cats can sleep anywhere they choose, and I have full control of the remote.  My room can be messy and unorganized, or everything in its place, depending on my energy and skill level at any given time.  I can stay on the computer for hours, with no one saying, "I don't know why you spend all that time on that damned thing...".  And, most important, my comings and goings are my business and no one else's. I love it.

Now, I'll probably fall madly in love with Roger and move in with him. (Get thee behind me Satan, and quit pushing, dammit!)

10 comments:

Babzy said...

You've got Roger and Dave. Why must you have Vincent, too? He's mine. I'll even throw in my half of Chris Meloni if you will stay away from Vincent.

alphonsedamoose said...

And I thought I was the one.You seem to be much more upbeat right now. This is a good thing.

BRUNO said...

Boy, I'm glad I ain't one of the choices, either---I had enough trouble using the right "bait" for ONE---and I caught her on a "trot-line"...!

Babzy said...

Deb, going to take a blogging break. I'll be checking in on you now and then. Don't forget me. xx

just me said...

Remember, my part of Chris is from the neck down. You get the rest.

Vincent is mine, he's mine, he's mine!!! Obsession is nine 10th of the law.

Moose: You are already taken, I believe...

Bruno: I know what a trot line is, and what I figure happened is she just threw out the hook, and reeled you right in...

Babzy: Will miss you, but there's always email...

No said...

...and there's always Chris Noth...yummmmy!!!!

BBC said...

There are advantages to living alone, but living with the right person is great also. And I have the greatest neighbor and visit her a number of times each day.

alphonsedamoose said...

Yes , I am very happily taken.

Babzy said...

I watched an old CSI Criminal Intent the other night. Det. Goren was slow dancing with a "hostess" who was giving him info about the murder of her friend.

I fell in love with him all over again, just watching him gliding around the dance floor being such a gentleman.

I'll bet you didn't know Robert Goren has a blog although he hasn't written a post since Aug/06. Go here.

just me said...

Babzy, thank you for the link. I left a comment, HA! What a wonderful fantasy....I didn't appreciate the comments by anonymous, though. I will have to kick some serious anonymous butt, now....